Philosophy

“Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood”
Stephen Covey

My Philosophy – we have to get back to our true selves; figure out who we were before life’s little disappointments piled up on us and changed us. We need to figure out what our needs are as well as what we can bring to a relationship. Then we absolutely, with compassion and gentleness, must strive to understand the other. All the time hoping for that magic elixir – chemistry.

Methodology – Encourage you to get out there dating. The only way to learn about yourself and the opposite sex is to get out there and meet people. I help guide you through this learning process and I make it FUN. Life is too short not to have fun; we’ve paid our dues!

I absolutely love talking about relationships and the human condition. Give me a call or shoot me off an email if you want to chat.

“Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here we might as well dance”

Wanda Murch, Dating and Relating CoachMy name is Wanda and I spent that last 15 years as an accountant and business consultant. Planning your love life is not much different from creating a business plan – create a goal and objective and then create a plan to achieve your goals. Although I loved business, my passion laid with relationships; why they worked, why they failed, how we fell in love and how we fell out of love.

My Story: After leaving a 16 year relationship I found myself navigating unchartered waters – I entered the relationship a girl and left a woman and a mother. How does one date in their 30′s and beyond?  I did what I always do when facing a challenge, I picked up a book and read; I talked to everyone who would give me the time of day; I dated; had relationships; gathered a new circle of friends; found new interests and passions and created a big life.

Then in 2008 the opportunity buy Soul Mates Matchmaking came up. I was so excited and could hardly wait to get started. Through Soul Mates, I met the most amazing people and again learned so much about how people, particularly the 35+ crowd, felt about dating and relationships.

It was quite an eye opener. There was a lot of frailty, mixed with big doses of bitterness, confusion, anger, frustration and fear amongst all these wonderful people who I was meeting. In order to be of maximum value to my clients I decided to join The Relationship Coaching Institute  and train to be a relationship coach. That brings us to today.